"The RIGHT Way to Speak"
In an effort to maximize our ability to communicate publicly, we often search
for the "right" way to speak. Finding the "right" way, however, is like grabbing
a handful of water.
Why? It is because the right way is slightly different for each person. It's
a combination of who, what, and where we are at the moment.
Of course, we can all apply certain fundamentals and techniques to elevate our
skill, but each of use will use them with varying results. Have you ever heard
the same joke from two different people and one time it was funny and the other
time it was not? Chances are high that the first was simply a funnier person than
the second.
Here's the secret to speaking the right way...
1. Know your speaking ability at the moment and use a majority of techniques
that fit within that level. Go with what works for you right now.
2. Continue to learn and apply new skills as you master your present set.
For most, public speaking does not come naturally; it is an acquired and
admired skill that comes through education and application.
3. Use one new speaking technique each speech or presentation. Try out a new
story, or a new prop, or a new close. I say one because if it doesn't work
out the way you expected, you have your sure bet techniques already doing a
great job for you.
The right way is simply your way at the moment. Do your best. Share the
greatest value with the audience. Don't beat yourself up if you are just
starting. Don't give yourself too much slack if you've been speaking for
years, but refuse to learn and apply new things.
Have an AWESOME week!
Paul
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