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Dear Speaker,
Let's face it. Nagging doubts, secret fears, and paralyzing insecurities are unwelcome, unwanted, and downright unnerving. The saddest part of all is how a lack of confidence prevents us from doing our absolute best. A lack of confidence can take otherwise talented people and talk them out of their dreams. (That hasn't happened to you has it?)
And then there's the crowd. The crowd left incomplete because the person who spoke didn't quite let go. The speaker had so much inside that stayed there because of a lack of belief. The speaker failed to believe he/she could really make a difference. (I'm speaking of others now, not you, you can't relate to holding back, can you? )
There are plenty of reasons for the passion, energy, and value not to leave the speaker's lips...
"What if I freeze?"
"What if they laugh - and they're no supposed to?"
"I shouldn't be doing this. Why did I ever agree to speak?"
"I hope they don't find out I don't know as much as they think I do."
"This is stupid. I've got no business doing this."
"If only I were more like so-in-so he/she seems to have it all together."
Ahhh...the excuses others use. (This is all hypothetical you understand. I would never imply that you have a list of excuses you tug on right before speaking.)
On the Other Hand...
About once a week I get an email like..."Hi Paul, I'm not really afraid of speaking...I do pretty good...I think the audience gets something out of it...I just want to get to the next level."
Whoa partner!
"...not really...pretty good...I think..."
Sounds like comfort to me. A nice little place is Comfortville. Nice little speeches. Nice little handshakes. Nice little little comments. Nice little check (real little).
What's so dangerous about being a comfortable speaker?
Well, for starters you'll never breakthrough to the "great" or "awesome" level, you'll always be a "decent" speaker. You see, to really make a powerful impact, to really allow your words to contain the capacity for change, your confidence must be recognized and felt by the audience. And comfort won't do that for you.
From Comfort to Confidence...
Your missing link to the next level is confidence.
You already know how to put a great speech together and deliver it. (If you don't then click here.)
You already feel comfortable in front of a group.
You already hear, "Nice job."
But aren't you ready for..."That Rocked!!"
Aren't you ready for..."We've got to get you back again!"
Aren't you ready to leave Comfortville for more excitement?
Are you TRULY CONFIDENT? Can you feel it right now? I'm talking about an almost overwhelming feeling of positive anticipation for your next engagement?
public speaking confidence fear of public speakingConfidence ROCKS!
We are drawn to confident people like 15 year old boy is drawn to J-Lo's bottom. And speakers who have overflow confidence possess an immediate advantage over a speaker who merely feels comfortable speaking. It feels so much better to face an engagement, meeting, presentation, heck, even your life, brimming with the confidence that comes from knowing you're valid and valuable. Or as I like to say: ValYOUable.
Advantages of being a confident person and speaker...
But, Paul, What About Me? I'm Terrified...
Maybe you haven't reach the comfort level. If you're still in the terrified arena you need to stop reading and order now! Audiences are like lions in a pride - they can smell fear a mile away. When the audience senses it they feel two things.
First, pity. They feel sorry for you when they can tell you're scared. But they feel passion when they can tell you're confident.
Second, pity again. Except this time for themselves. They start thinking of everywhere else they could be, and all the thing they could be doing.
Your Personal Audio Confidence Seminar...
"To Become a More Confident Speaker, You Must Become a More Confident Person." public speaking confidence fear of public speaking
Silver Edition: Confidence Fundamentals
Audio: Introducing...Confidence!
Audio: The Confident Speaking Formula
Audio: Creating Confident Change
Thoughts Beliefs Actions Expectation Results
Audio: Confidence Crushers
Audio: Public Speaker's Permission Principles!
Audio: Building Confidence
Audio: Arrogance Verses Confidence
Audio: Stay Away from Public Speaking Poop
Audio: Daily & Monthly Plan
PDF: 77 Keys to Confidence : Short confident thoughts for you to ponder, absorb, and apply.
PDF: Silver Edition Confidence Guide : Print it out and use it to take notes, and fill in as you listen to the training audios.
Gold Edition: Confidence Depth
Audio: PMA Programming for Confidence
Audio: Five Contrarian Confidence Positions
Audio: 25 Instant Confidence Boosters
Audio: Ten Steps to Speaking Confidence.
Audio: SECRETS of Confident Speakers
Audio: How & Why We Are Programmed for Insecurity
PDF: Gold Edition Confidence Guide : Takes notes and discover your own personal confidence system on all the audios above. public speaking confidence fear of public speaking
Platinum Edition: Confidence Coaching
Audio: Paul's Personal Confidence/Life Philosophy
Coaching: 1 Month Email/1 Hr Phone Coaching (reg. $100) Normally this service alone is $100. But you get everything listing above AND an hour of phone coaching, or a month of email coaching, in the low Platinum Edition price. After your purchase there will be a special email subject link on the download page to contact me.
Where would you use this information?
This program is about turning you into someone that won't settle for being mediocre, someone other people want to be like and who is ready, willing and able to help other people when they need it.
Here's a secret bonus...
This system will not only build your speaking confidence, but also your LIFE confidence. You will become a more confident worker, friend, parent, spouse...You name it!
You'll start living your dreams. The reason most people never follow their star is because of a lack of confidence. Everything gets put on the back burner because of "risk." Now you'll be able to take confident risks. People will notice your change in attitude and energy.
Do you know the #1 difference between successful people and the rest of the population?
Confidence.
Kent Sayre, author of Unstoppable Confidence, puts it this way, "People who have confidence will take their dreams and make them come true because they will take immediate, massive, repeated action and will never quit until they make their dreams come true. Those people who lack confidence still have the same passions as everyone else like we all do yet they will stay stuck and unfulfilled if they don't take their dreams and make them come true."
WOW! You stand to gain so much more than the ability to speak confidently in front of a group of people!
Oh, yeah - What You Ain't Getting:
This is not a cluster of ethereal meditation, drink your aura, breathe deep and feel the energy type of stuff. Sorry, if you want to build confidence through mantras, sniffing incense, and sucking on moist tea leaves - this is not for you.
No hypnotics either. You don't get to play these audios laying in bed relaxing every part of your body, while being mentally massaged with positive affirmations like, "You are as strong as an oak battered by the four winds of the universe..." Does hypnotism work - you bet - for some - but I'm not qualified to hypnotize, so I'm not touching it.
This is not a bunch of exercise for nerves. This is about confidence. So you're not getting techniques to help you keep your knees from shaking right before hitting the stage. You're getting principles to build confidence so your knees don't shake at all.
When you order now you are also guaranteed at NO EXTRA COST!
Lifetime updates and additions...FREE
1. More audios are on the way for each edition. For example: "C.O.R.E. Confidence" - "7 Confident Patterns You Must Adopt" - "The Confidence Charisma Connection."
2. The transcript for your edition. It's going to take a few months to get the entire course typed, edited, and formatted, but you're locked in. I'll send you an email when it's ready and you get the ebook and nothing else to pay. Order today!
You won't pay one dime more!
What You Need to Use the System:
This is a digital product, nothing is mailed to you You get instant access via the download page.
Chances are you already have everything you need to get with the program.
1. A heart and mind ready to learn and apply the principles of confidence.
2. Audio Options...
FLASH - this is what plays the audio. If you have played any of the audio on the page then you're set! If you can't see the audio buttons then you can download flash free - click here for flash. The reason I used this system over others is because it loaded the quickest. If your on a dial-up connection you'll still get to stream the audio.
MP3. This is another option if you would rather download the audio as MP3 files to play on your computer or on your Ipod - or whatever gadget you use. (If you have no idea what I'm talking about, just listen online using the previous FLASH option.) You can burn them to CDs if you like.
4. Adobe Reader - another free product. The confidence guide and forthcoming ebook are PDFs (Portable Document Format). That way it doesn't matter if you are on a PC or MAC. You can get Adobe Reader free here if you don't already have it.
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Once your credit card is approved, you will be taken to a special download page where you will download the PDFs and have full access to your audio package.
Silver Edition- $24.95 Gold Edition - $39.95 Platinum Edition - $99.95 You will be downloading the confidence guide and listening to the audios in just few minutes... and using it to create UNCRUSHABLE CONFIDENCE!!
Your Confidence Coach!
Paul Evans
P.S. How would you describe your speaking?
A. Cowardly? B. Comfortable? C. Confident?
If "C" was not your answer, order your Confidence System immediately!
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